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MY GUIDING LIGHT : Now that old buzzard Johnny Walker, Has gone and ruined all our plans. Our best-made plans. Don't leave me here, my guiding light, 'Cause I, I, wouldn't know where to begin. [Kings Of Medicine - Placebo]  Blouse with satin flange of black and white silk. Cut out trousers of black wool crepe. Gabrielle Lys. January 28th 2010.
MY GUIDING LIGHT :
"Now that old buzzard Johnny Walker,
Has gone and ruined all our plans.
Our best-made plans.
Don't leave me here, my guiding light,
'Cause I, I, wouldn't know where to begin."
[Kings Of Medicine - Placebo]

Blouse with satin flange of black and white silk. Cut out trousers of black wool crepe.
Gabrielle Lys. January 28th 2010.


TRANSPARENCY : Back to basics, my first drawing style... Gabrielle Lys.  August 8, 2010.
TRANSPARENCY :
Back to basics, my first drawing style...
Gabrielle Lys. August 8, 2010.


GABRIEL REQUESTS: GABRIEL PRIE:  Marie, if I could In your naked arms Rest me Death promised his last dance   Marie, I will wait Until to the sky you come to find Me [Marie - Johnny Hallyday]  With his blue celestial hair, Gabriel requests Marie. Jacket with shoulder pads out of folded wheels. Long velvet skirt in range of folds and small trail in tail. Gabrielle Lys. Marsh 4,  2008.
GABRIEL REQUESTS:
GABRIEL PRIE:
" Marie, if I could
In your naked arms
Rest me
Death promised his last dance
Marie, I will wait
Until to the sky
you come to find Me"
[Marie - Johnny Hallyday]

With his blue celestial hair, Gabriel requests Marie. Jacket with shoulder pads out of folded wheels. Long velvet skirt in range of folds and small trail in tail.
Gabrielle Lys. Marsh 4, 2008.


LAWRENCE OF ARABIA: Sherif Ali: In Cairo, you will put off theses funny clothes. You'll wear trousers an tell stories of our quaintness and barbarity. T.E. Lawrence: You are an ignorant man. [Homage to Lawrence of Arabia Dialogue of the movie Lawrence of Arabia]  Gabrielle Lys. Marsh 25, 2008.
LAWRENCE OF ARABIA:
Sherif Ali: "In Cairo, you will put off theses funny clothes. You'll wear trousers an tell stories of our quaintness and barbarity.
T.E. Lawrence: "You are an ignorant man."
[Homage to Lawrence of Arabia
Dialogue of the movie "Lawrence of Arabia"]

Gabrielle Lys. Marsh 25, 2008.



To dare the skirt, it is to develop a beautiful interiority.

"If I differ from you, far from injuring you, I increase you." [ Saint-Exupéry ]

dot  I found this very beautiful interview of Saverio Tomasella which I publish here with the agreement of the author. It can be useful to each one among you who write to me not to dare the skirt.
Gabrielle Lys
Sources :
Interview of Saverio Tomasella. Psychoanalyst and author "to make peace with oneself" - (Eyrolles edition)


dot  Which difficulties meet people who must assume a "difference"?

The fields of the differences is infinite. One can be too small, too large, too thin, too large. But also eccentric, marginal, night-bird, or to like to wear the skirt... From the point of view of the psychological mechanisms, one can say that the child who arrives at the world has a need inconcient to be recognized by his environment. Subjected to the social standards of a group (his family, his neighbors, the school), he will do everything unconsciously, to adhere to the values of this group.


dot  What happen if a human being is discovered artist in a family where they hate that, or is manual in a intellectual family ?

he will not feel with the height of this request of harmonization and will live a conflict. From there, two scénarii are possible. Maybe, he meets a person (a grandmother, a friend, a teacher...) who carries it, which say to him "would be what you are". Then there, it is practically gained. In spite of the mockeries or comments, he will be able to be based on this word of the other. Maybe, he does not meet a support...


dot  But what does it occur if, the most frequent case, he does not cross this support on his road?

A conflict between the ideal of the group and his reality (what he is able to bring) will settle in him. This conflict causes suffering. While growing, this faintness can evolve in two manners. Either it will push him to saying "Dash it!", to become a little rebellious or creative. we find a lot of people engaged in this category: trade unionists, artists, politicians. Maybe, he will induce a fold on oneself which can lead to despair or depression...


dot  Are there common springs to the people who voluntarily choose a certain marginality?

We observe recurring diagrams. In closing families (rigid vestimentary, professional, of behavior codes), children feel with narrow, not recognized. Some will react by making a marginal choice. All rather than to conform to the family model. They will be tramp rather than insurance agent, travelling acrobat rather than doctor, or completely eccentric rather than assembled collet. It is a choice of survival which can save them and become an asset. But contrary, others turn over against them the cruelty of the system. Confronted with a devaluing language, they will become this least that nothing to not repudiate the system. The "difference" is then in the self-destruction or the negation of oneself. Painful.


dot  Can Prear which process the difference become a richness?

In a general way, crossed of suffering, small or large, makes mature, makes more human. Different, I must face to mockeries, with the rejection, with the comments... My heart is obliged to be reinforced. I will more quickly become myself rather than on the others. It is a favorable ground to the emergence of a very beautiful interiority which, at the adulthood, will hatch. In the form of a particularly subtle way to like the life, or to like the others, or to approach work, the private life or to express an art; a many painters, singers, novelists result from this vein. It is very important to know that the difference is a chance. The pain which results from this makes it possible to better reach the bottom of its heart.


dot  Which is the council to give to except standards people so that they live their marginality as well as possible?

Seek with deepest of you than there is of more human and express it humanly. The others will be humanized with your contact. Then the difference does not seem one obstacle any more. There is not difference that cannot be assumed and respected. Means of arriving there? That depends on the way of life but impossible to make this course alone. The human being needs another human being to structure himself. This other can be a friend, a love, a person of resource, a spiritual step. Or a therapeutist.


The five rules of an accomplished interiority:

1) To demolish glance of the others.

2) To give value to its own feelings ("what I feel, it is valid, even if it is not in conformity")

3) To transform its resentments into personal thoughts (if I smell myself badly, to manage to express it in "I" rather than to leave himself with "my colleague is bitch")

4) To touch his own loneliness ("I cannot be well with the others if I do not accept my loneliness")

5) To enter into contact with different people ("more I riches my pallet, more I accept my difference")



The site is a success thanks to you all. Thank you for your expressions of sympathy in the golden book and ideological support of members. Thank you also with those which write personal messages to me. They suit me right to the heart and push me to advance always further.
Gabrielle Lys

Autumn-Winter 2010-2012: Boots and tunic in false fur on short skirt. Gabrielle Lys. August 2007.
Autumn-Winter 2010-2012:
Boots and tunic in false fur on short skirt.
Gabrielle Lys. August 2007.


New York city: Since the skirt for man is worn in the biggest Western metropolises, it is in New York city that the first dresses make their appearance. In front of the building of the fifth avenue, Flo, the leading fashion model wears a dress in fabric on one white sticking. Gray ankle boots in imitation leather were selected for this escapade on the roofs. Flo carries a long raincoat. Gabrielle Lys. April 2006.
New York city:
Since the skirt for man is worn in the biggest Western metropolises, it is in New York city that the first dresses make their appearance. In front of the building of the fifth avenue, Flo, the leading fashion model wears a dress in fabric on one white sticking. Gray ankle boots in imitation leather were selected for this escapade on the roofs. Flo carries a long raincoat.
Gabrielle Lys. April 2006.


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El pantalón fue utilizado para DISCRIMINAR, abusar y humillar a la mujer.
Las FALDAS; y los VESTIDOS CON FALDA, para los varones; SON UNA GRAN NECESIDAD; por salud, por respeto y por comodidad.
Por tradición y desde siempre los hombres se habían vestido con faldas, solo hace 500 años que nos obligaron a usar el horroroso e incomodo pantalón.
Ademas con el uso del pantalón el hombre ha terminado orinando de pie lo cual es totalmente antinatural. Las Faldas y los vestidos con faldas para los hombres son suprema-mente SALUDABLES, CÓMODOS Y CONFORTABLES.
Por salud y comodidad mejor usar FALDAS O VESTIDOS CON FALDA PARA HOMBRE .
Hay una GRAN NECESIDAD POR ATENDER entre la población masculina; y esta muy relacionada con la SALUD; y la calidad de vida de los varones;
Las faldas para los varones son una gran NECESIDAD; por salud, por respeto y por comodidad.

El pantalón es la prenda menos adecuada para un hombre; el calzoncillo bóxer, hace las veces de férula en los genitales, (propiciando mal funcionamiento, y discapacidades); el calzoncillo bóxer mantiene los genitales inmovilizados ; magullados y machacados; la costura central del pantalón maltrata, magulla e incomoda todo el tiempo los genitales; la correa o cinturón hace las veces de torniquete, y obliga al corazón a bombear la sangre con mayor esfuerzo, (para vencer la contracción que hace el torniquete), y por mala irrigacion sanguínea afecta: el aparato digestivo, el sistema urinario, el aparato reproductor. Ademas con el uso del pantalón el hombre ha terminado orinando de pie lo cual es totalmente antinatural. Las Faldas y los vestidos con faldas para los hombres son suprema-mente SALUDABLES, CÓMODOS Y CONFORTABLES. El pantalón, el calzoncillo ajustado, la costura central del pantalón, y la correa o cinturón, están promoviendo las enfermedades modernas de los hombres: IMPOTENCIA, ESTERILIDAD, PROBLEMAS DE LA PRÓSTATA Y POSIBLEMENTE CÁNCER DEL TESTÍCULO.
Ninguna parte del cuerpo del varón se magulla, ni se machaca; ni se maltrata tanto como los genitales.

Las faldas y vestidos con falda para los hombres no deben ir con volantes, boleros, encajes, moñitos; y/o adornos; o estampados típicamente femeninos; pero si se pueden elaborar unas muy buenas faldas y vestidos con falda para los hombres; y que se diferencien de las prendas femeninas.


El tiro; ( que es la costura que une las piernas; tira, por delante; o por detrás; y por eso tiene que sacarlo de entre las nalgas); el horroroso e incómodo pantalón; maltrata; magulla; machaca; lacera, e incomoda todo el tiempo los genitales. Las personas se acostumbran a vivir con la incomodidad; como cuando un zapato nuevo les hace salir callos, o ampollas en los pies.
Por Anatomía el pantalón sería más afín para la mujer, que para los hombres; lo más adecuado; SALUDABLE; DECENTE; ERGONÓMICO; PRACTICO; y FUNCIONAL, para vestirse un hombre es una FALDA al estilo escocés; o UN VESTIDO CON FALDAS.
La falda circular y semicircular para hombre; es lo mas practico y fácil de elaborar; pues no lleva cierre o cremallera en la pretina


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